it is by ceremonial structure that makes the real difference,think of it like getting hit in the leg.
male energies is like one big punch,sure it hurts but the pain go,s away
female energies is in ripples or waves less painful, but the multiple hits cause compound fractures.
to create a true female energy ceremony
structure the stages to raise the intensity then level it ,then raise it again then level it,do this Three or more times so that the ways of energies are strong,when ever I have use this structure I have found that women respond better to it, I get feedback on how they really zoned it on the ceremony .I tell them it was made for your energy patterns.
what works well= examples
dance meditation symbolic work (ritual) song meditation dance again
just remember to do something to raise the energy them level it off a couple of times.
Lucia you have always been a creative person ! think Reike